Crawling out from under my rock...
Nov. 17th, 2012 10:46 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hemrageGot this comment on a fic...
Just the type of comment which makes me think 'fuck it'. I make no apologies for repeating this comment here - it wasn't sent as a PM so it's open for everyone to read. It just really fucking pisses me off that someone can assume to know my thoughts and motivations - can judge me. I mean how did I cope before someone who has never met me in RL decided that I'm obviously sick and deranged? Just fuck it. I've been absent for a while because RL has been completely shit, believe me when I say that this isn't giving me any desire to come back.
What makes this person think that I don't have dark things in my past that I need to work through? What makes this person think that writing isn't my way of dealing with painful crap? Is this person a therapist who can make judgments on someone without actually talking to them.
I wouldn't have minded as much if this had been a PM. We could've engaged in a, no doubt, lively discussion - but it was posted in a public place.
Maybe I'm overreacting, but what the hell. It's my reaction, just like the above comment is the reaction of someone else, so I'm perfectly entitled to air it in my own journal. MY JOURNAL - not anyone elses.
It always annoys me when people on LJ delete journals with no warning - but believe me, I was tempted. If what I write is so offensive to some people then maybe it should be gone...
I have no problem with the "Male Pregnancy" memes, J2/slash, or M/M, whatsoever. The problem I have is with your and your "sisters'" view of government sanctioned/enforced rape: That ain't "kink", sweetheart, that's a brainwashed, mucked-up worldview! You do know, don't you, that every person in our dreams and the characters that a writer writes about are merely facets of ourselves? Therefore, you have just stated (you & every other similarly oblivious writer) that you're okay with enslavement, sodomy, and rape - for yourself! That YOU could and would "fall in love" with your rapist AND that, in your delusion, your "impregnator" would love and care for you! That's right up there with "the 'dom' LOVES his/her 'sub'" and vice versa. The truth, regarding the psychology behind d/s & bdsm, is that a true 'dom' is a sociopath who is just one tiny hair's breadth from becoming a murderer and do you know what that hair's separation is? Self-preservation. A sociopath sees the boundary and won't cross it unless they believe that they can get away with it.
Law enforcement profilers believe there are no less than a couple of hundred serial murders operating in the United States alone; many of them camoflaged as a mild mannered whatever with a Dom/bdsm "kink".
The ones who fantasize about being the submissive in a "loving relationship with a 'sadist with a heart of gold'" (as represented by "Jared", in this story, but which is a characteristic running through your writings and a lot of similar stories in this genre) are one step away from becoming just another death/domestic violence statistic.
Do you know the best "relationship" to have with 'dom'/sadist? The same that you'd want to have with a rabid animal. Period. How do I know? Personal. Experience.
Just the type of comment which makes me think 'fuck it'. I make no apologies for repeating this comment here - it wasn't sent as a PM so it's open for everyone to read. It just really fucking pisses me off that someone can assume to know my thoughts and motivations - can judge me. I mean how did I cope before someone who has never met me in RL decided that I'm obviously sick and deranged? Just fuck it. I've been absent for a while because RL has been completely shit, believe me when I say that this isn't giving me any desire to come back.
What makes this person think that I don't have dark things in my past that I need to work through? What makes this person think that writing isn't my way of dealing with painful crap? Is this person a therapist who can make judgments on someone without actually talking to them.
I wouldn't have minded as much if this had been a PM. We could've engaged in a, no doubt, lively discussion - but it was posted in a public place.
Maybe I'm overreacting, but what the hell. It's my reaction, just like the above comment is the reaction of someone else, so I'm perfectly entitled to air it in my own journal. MY JOURNAL - not anyone elses.
It always annoys me when people on LJ delete journals with no warning - but believe me, I was tempted. If what I write is so offensive to some people then maybe it should be gone...
